Leaving My Cheating Boyfriend

I’m proud of myself for walking away when I needed to. I had prepared myself for any negative outcome, ensuring I wouldn't crash and burn. I don’t want to live a life with someone who pushes me away when I reach out. That’s not the kind of love I want. I shouldn’t feel anxious when I’m supposed to feel safe in love. In every relationship, whether romantic or platonic, I seek safety in every aspect. I deserve love that doesn’t hurt.

I’m grateful for the protection I believe God provided, as He promised. I could have left that situation pregnant, with an STD, or worse—moving to Atlanta and derailing the plans God had for me.

This experience showed me what it means to settle and how giving too many chances can be dangerous. It’s important to recognize how we sometimes contribute to letting others traumatize us.